Hello Twin Flames Increase in self-worth for divine feminine that allows the masculine to commit and raise his standards. This is about investment, Spirit has recently brought me to a feminine that embodies more of the Lilith energy and although her teachings speak of some things that are too materialistic or imply lying, which is not something I condone. She speaks about a man's investment in a woman and how his ability to be the man allows him to fall in love and stay with a woman. She speaks of how cooking and cleaning and being emotionally invested doesn’t make a man anymore inclined to stay with you in the long term, you are doing all that work and if you are not his wife, it lowers the value you have in his eyes. Now on a spiritual level, of course, the value is not lowered because of unconditional love. BUT I believe a big part in the divine masculine holding off on 3D union is them waiting for us feminine to come into our power. AND for many divine feminines, this is allowing herself to RECEIVE. The MASSES are encouraging a woman can do it all, but why would you want to do it all when your masculine wants to serve you. This is an important time, where most men (masses) do not have to leave there feminine. There is a mass collective healing that will happen when the divine feminine stop mothering the men and showing them up with there success. Receive your own personalized guidance and readings here https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/RubyLoveTarot?ref=seller-platform-mcnav When the feminine allows in this love, protection and financial support. The truth is the masculine has supported other feminine in this lifetime and THERE IS NO REASON FOR YOU NOT TO DESERVE THE SAME. I have had the thought I truly love my masculine, and I don’t want to ask him for anything financially, love is all that matters. But for the divine masculine playing, this 3D role investing in you is something they not only want to do but also need to do to fall in love with you as a partner in the 3D. Last night I had such a heart-opening feeling and it was nothing like I have ever felt. I was meditating on what it would be like if my masculine offered to pay all our bills and allowed me to play and be my feminine self. This is a higher vibrational concept and I understand if this triggers some of you. Think of it as it pertains to your self-worth. If you were, for instance, a celebrity, a model or someone from a very wealthy family what would you feel you deserve?? Well, you are just as valuable as those people and you are not a victim. I have been in the independent energy, where in fact I felt empowered being able to pay for things, but it does emasculate the masculine. If you masculine can’t afford his own, highly unlikely, but maybe consider if your paying is helping him move into a higher vibration and get his own means of higher income. Most likely not. On this last vacation I had with my masculine, I was paying for things, dinners etc. for the first couple days I got there and then something flipped in our dynamic and for the rest of the trip, my masculine wanted to drive me where ever I wanted to go, and he refused to let me pay for anything. I remember he brought us to go dinner and I wanted a drink so I went to go buy the drinks and he’s like no I got it and I was like no I will pay. Looking back I should have just let him provide for me instead of arguing in front of the male cashier. Why this is important to you is because I want you to think about ways it may be MORE in the flow to receive. Now your masculine may not just start spending money on you as mine did, ALTHOUGH THEY MIGHT. But it is important for the feminine to think about where the relationship is going and to in a nice way “demand” with her energy better treatment. Better treatment can include being “spoiled.” and “cherished. “ Now again this blog post is about helping you get into 3D union. Let's talk about looks, yes 3D looks. When I went through the brunt of my spiritual awakening and practically my dark night of the soul. I completely lost touch with the 3D and I deemed it superficial and a waste of time to care about looks, hair, makeup, clothes etc. One thing I want to talk about is something I believe I cleared, but I was terrified of looking pretty because I thought I would be raped. Masculine attention was very difficult for me. Now I will say a lot of that has come from having a karmic childhood where I was not protected. But I have learned to not put myself in situations where I feel unsafe. To live in a better neighborhood. The main thing is just how I feel, I feel more like a middle-class woman, daughter of someone middle class that would never get assaulted. (Why I say middle class, is because in the poverty class I grew up in, WOMEN ARE OFTEN NOT PROTECTED OR BELIEVED BY AUTHORITY FAMILY ETC. I know from experience) Okay, let’s get back to the topic of beauty. As I have stabilized in the 3d again I have slowly been taking care of my looks more and more. I lost about 30 pounds and my hair grew very long.
Here is the new information that I think this wave will start applying. Dressing unique and feminine. We need (if you choose) to be exceptional and less average with our looks. This can mean working out, upgrading socks and underwear, shopping more often, getting a new updated makeup look, going to the hair salon, getting nails done or upgraded and so on. The lady I spoke about said that if your man is good looking you have to be at least 4 X better looking for him to settle down. Now I understand that the love between divine masc. and divine fem is undeniable and HE WILL LOVE YOU NO MATTER WHAT YOU LOOK LIKE. SPIRIT IS SAYING: it would be easier for your divine masculine to accept a committed long-term relationship if you look like and TREAT YOURSELF like a catch. Again this has to do with self-worth. How well you take care of yourself and even value taking the time to take of yourself reflects. “– End of what spirit says Now I understand you are busy…I was too and I thought that by achieving so much my masculine would be like wow your amazing, but instead, he felt I was competing with him and honestly maybe I was. I wanted him to recognize me for how busy and masculine I was being. The truth is the masculine wants to praise you for how beautiful, assuring, cute, playful, and unique and most of all self-assured you are. To deal with the business this is part of why allowing the masculine to provide some financial support to you is important. Even if at first this is just he taking you for dinner or ordering in and paying this takes less pressure off of you to cook another meal. Or if he pays for the groceries that’s an extra 100$ to spend on what makes you feel good or $100 worth of wages you no longer need to worry about earning. Okay, I am going to end the post here. Sending lots of love Lexx Reader
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